Come again. Croaking Lizards (Gecko) Mi hear a loud croaken lizaad pon yuh verandah, suh me tun back But theres still a bit of it left in me and I still see it through new eyes day. It is rather a major deficit in our socialization process. This also exists in parts of Africa as well. We lived there for a total of three plus seven, about 10 years, I guess. So they struggle to wrap their brains around that, unless theyve traveled. Im a proud Jamaican love us or hate us Barbados or Trini we dont care we are who we are we wont stop yall from hating us cause your countries aint the only country that hate Jamaicans and we are still living so we dont care. You show them their yes But twice we lived in South Africa twice. So, that is typically, and I speak with lots of Jamaicans about that. The other one that I used to get quite often and it would make me laugh. I dislike Southern Hospitality. They eat boiled green plantains here. Unregistered Wedding Ring (@askanonpro) March 7, 2020. I wasnt romanticizing about it. Yes, they both feel like home. These are all symptoms of living more from ego seen in any culture. Listen, how I see is it that Jamaica has its own culture just as any culture mixed from its traditions environment and a fingerprint of factors. Look, when I met my husband, my husband knew more reggae lyrics in 87, than I had ever known in my entire life. This conservation effort always We know how to party until the sun comes up and can just as easily relax at home and sleep through the Sunday rainfall. You are an affront to other islands Jamaica! Missing you. Xavier: And you may not have many of them. What do you like most about Ghana? Maybe you knew a lot of poor Jamaicans and poor people have similar problems anywhere. Aggresive. The German accent is very aggressive. Were kind of like the Nigerians. These are part of ADOS ideology, which we have also overwhelmingly encountered online. Edo South Is Bigger Than The Whole Of Yorubaland All Toghether (excluding Lagos). You just spending, you know, the five days in Nigeria and the two days in Ghana, you could just see the temperament. So if youre standing in a supermarket line, you can crack a joke and make reference to the child of the person in front of you. You can never go clockwise when youre saying hello to people. A distinction exists between Jamaican English and Jamaican Patois (or Creole), though not entirely a sharp distinction so much as a gradual continuum between two extremes. Ruth: Yes. They may even argue to the death that it wasnt or just let what you say pass by with blissful ignorance as they reassure themselves. It also comes down to where you went to school, where you work, who you know, what you drive, where you live, how often you travel, the first impression you give off, how you carry yourself, etc. And I think that thats what really felt good. I didnt say jamaicans invented rudeness either. Youve seen attempts in Jamaica to have local music or local beats or indigenous beats re-introduce themselves into our music and our way of worship, but wi (we) nuh (dont) reach yet. Ruth: The biggest sin in Jamaica is what? Because Ackee came from Ghana, but Ghanaians typically dont eat ackee. Toruk Makto (@BufbertBeefcake) March 8, 2020. America and Canada are a different story. But even if you go into a church, just dancing and celebration of life, you know, kind of let everything that has breath, praise the Lord. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that - Martin Luther King. Ruth: But yes. I thought the joke was on the person, not me rather, was, I would bump into guys who mightve studied overseas and they mightve had a Jamaican girlfriend overseas, and then when theyd hear that I was Jamaican, youd see them, their eyes kind of get watery. Yes. Some will go as far as find a reason why the murder of Haitians is justifiable. Ruth: But in terms of those wow Jamaica moment, yuh (you) get the Usain Bolt, yuh (you) get the Reggae. Thank you very much. You show them their weaknesses. WebTHE TRUTH IS, we were taught to hate JAMAICANS. And because Im coming from Ghana Im waiting for that to be thoroughly jazzed up, rocking left, right and center. Some of the stuff youre saying, youre not getting a lot of the stereotypical, Id say. I keep telling you, Matt. Ruth: Another thing is, and where we run into this all the time is, if a plumber comes to the house and they say, Boy, you can fix this pipe? Yes, man. Xavier: The canopies that you go up on the trees, but the best part for me was just listening and just watching the people and it was just amazing to me. Who said Ghanaians hate us? THE TRUTH IS, we were taught to hate JAMAICANS. Xavier: -its emotional. WebSixty per cent of Jamaicans say they reject the lifestyle compared to the 46 per cent in 2012. Xavier: I can tell you this, when I was planning the trip there and for years, I keep hearing everybody seh (say), you know, Ghana feels like home. That my passport is expired. Ghana is not going to be delivered to you on a plate like that. So, I caan (cant) just come out and start a big, big argument with somebody whos much older than me, because it doesnt wash so well. It was too short of a time. The tradition is very hierarchical. Jamaican English tends to follow British Kirk Campbell, I didnt say s law , dummy. No. When I was in high school, I lived in Spain, loved it. Their dislike for Nigerians did not start todayy. I can see why the Jamaicans youve met have not liked you. Utter rubbish, small islanders would make the opposite argument. I mean, the Dominican (Republic) is embarrassed of their hate of Haitian people. Learn how your comment data is processed. Stock Photos from Photos.com, iStockPhotos.com, 123rf. If you have Jamaicans in your life, cherish them. Why unnuh cyaah be gentle and sweet like sugar and cream? We're honest. We're not mean. I cant fully explain it, but it just is. Men being very bossy to women, using them, cheating. Saving water and electricity is an art practiced by many Jamaicans daily. Jamaicans hate utility bills especially for water and light (electricity). [2] [3] [4] [5] History [ edit] . So theres a whole old school, what we consider to be an old school conversation around that. The gecko known as the croaking lizard (they make croaking sounds) in Jamaica is the most feared lizard. Where the ego part comes in like Marty said is when they get it back. WebThen in November 1969, the Ghanaian government passed an order called the Aliens Compliance Order, which authorized all undocumented immigrants( or aliens as they TRUTH ISJAMAICA, heroes are never hailed by people who dont know how to get off their knees. Then we get to the attitude of being tough. Meanwhile, when I lived in Georgia, there were African Americans protesting at universities that affirmative action shouldnt be open to other non-White races/ethnicities and that Black people from other countries shouldnt have access either. Xavier: Well, heres my next question. So, people would be scared that somebody like me would come and have children here and then would leave with the children. I just sat there and just took in my surroundings, just like you said. Now, Jamaica tek (take) dancing to another level, youre saying that, not even close? Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this sites author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. But even through the yelling, chances are well reach an understanding. I dont know much about French Canada, so Ill have to take your word for it! They didnt need the new religion and they certainly didnt need to bake in the sun! And why they doing this and? We dont get it. All of us over the side, we dont she (say) plantain, we say plantain. So my tendency if someone was yelling at me would be to yell back why are you such an a88hole today?!! But the one thing that caught my attention was, you said, The dancing is to another level. Okay. Our hearts smile, Baraka Flaka Flaaaame (@blackinnaminute) March 7, 2020. Hello Marie! But dont sort of show up here and fire away, brap! 93Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. Ill introduce it to other Jamaicans and well have a blast just moving around. Britt The Beauty (@Britt__Da__Shit) March 8, 2020. So, let me give for the foreigner, for the Jamaican coming to Ghana, maybe you start with Jollof Rice, which Ghanaians and Nigerians always fighting over Jollof Rice. I appreciate your outlook and will say that we get on much better with Canadians than Americans, in Jamaica. 1. Ruth: In Jamaica the biggest sin is what? Mi cya come. (I said, no boy I book already you know. That being said, we will tell you bout your muma and her claat if you fly pass your nest. In our series of letters from African journalists, Ghanaian writer Elizabeth Ohene looks at the fraught relationship between Ghana and Nigeria, So, Jamaicans and other cultures too. Check out Sheris Blog HERE and Like the Naked Departure Facebook Page HERE, Remember to share this article on Facebook and other Social Media Platforms. I almost beat her up. Wait til you sign out. Xavier: So my first question is, which paat a Jamaica yuh cum fram? So I like it with peanut soup, with groundnut soup. WebThere are a few reasons why Nigerians and Jamaicans may not get along. I read the comments made by anonymous about the bullying and rudeness and I cant help but wonder if that person didnt fully grasp cultural differences. But theyre Ghanaian kids with international attachments. Furthermore, our society and culture is inherently aggressive. Once people realized there was a cat in the bag, they had so many questions and wanted to meet him. But, were they really? So, whats the main takeaway here? They believe that if youre maintaining peace, its okay to delay the truth or to color the truth. If you hear people laughing, speaking in a way that youre familiar with, or that resonates with your soul. Thank you for your support. Making purchases via these links result in a small reward for us at no extra cost to you. It almost sounds like it wasnt as bad and you talked about the, gender roles, and so on. Its not your place to say who died. I think every, black person, every person of color, every person, even white, it dont matter. I guess I can see how people with less sense could simplify it to that. . jamaycanprincess (@jamaycanprinces) March 8, 2020. But, I can assure you, if you ask anyone in the world who youve just described, they would tell you: AN AMERICAN. Before you pop off and take egoistic for completely bad or your own definition we are all egoistic its part of our survival nature. @shadowtheprcat was such a good sport in the airport and quite the show stopper. We accept it! Both nations are members of the United Nations, however neither country has a resident ambassador. I think its silly to think Jamaicans are assholes and then wander into the lions den thinking she stands a chance. And just seeing people stand up with their hands a kimbo, it just felt familiar. Therefore when those blunt comments or people do get some kind of blunt thing or criticism back, my god they do not take it well. Put more simply, we are not a culture that beats around the bush and we dislike people who do. You know, the proverb that came to mind was, children to speak when theyre spoken to. Thats the first proverb that came to mind when you kind of said that. As a little girl in primary school, ourteacher taught us that Barbados was the jewel of the Caribbean. Ruth: Yes. I say lord, tek (take) time nuh (no) man. I think thats what they have in common and thats whats very similar to Jamaica. I think theres so much to see that you just have to silence yourself and silence the critique, save the questions, and do ask them. And with me today is Ruth Qwaqwa from Ghana, a Jamaican who is living there. Xavier: Well listen, Ruth, I appreciate you taking time out of your busy day to tell us about Ghana. We dont have anything to compare with that in Jamaica. Thats very, very interesting. How Jamaican Men Say Thank You to another Jamaican How Jamaicans Greet You When They Have Not Seen You 20 English Words That Sound Better In Jamaican Patois. People call in sick to work. Also, what many outsiders view as us fussing is us having a good time. Jamaicans are moreto the point. Your ancestors must be bowing their heads in shame. Never before have I ever heard so much ignorance or seen such lies put on the internet. I asked him why, and he said it was because other Jamaican-Americans he knew influenced him Were assholes when were mad. Its usually a symptom of a fragile ego which is understandable because the culture is also very egotistical and ego is seen as mainly positive to them. Theres a whole DNA story that you and I will catch up on, my visit at some point but when I got to Ghana, Ill tell you, it felt like home. But to others, it isn't. Maybe its not the race, but the nationality and the culture that comes with it? Research like this is essential to understanding why that is, and how to change it. Were, again, you know, I think in some places the Nigerians, they seem like the type that will tell you like it is. So, for every good thing, when its exaggerated or when it comes on heavy, sometimes we can misinterpret it or it becomes something that we dont like as much. WebJamaicans are all hustlers. Join our newsletter to get the latest articles, news, & videos. Joining Lines & Line Cutters Beg yuh a bli nuh, mi cyan stan up lang caw mi hab gas inna mi foot Oh yeah Im French-Canadian. A prime example of this is America. Ruth: So, I hooked up with a Ghanaian at university in the US, and we got married, in Jamaica. Have you ever wondered whats it like being a Jamaican living in Ghana? It was Black Uhuru, Steel Pulse. I dont feel it is just a Barbadian problem as it is regional. i have a lot of Jamaicans friends and i give all the respect drew to them god bless all my springfield Jamaican. An intriguing and fascinating story; adopted from the book The ORIGINAL JAMAICAN Patois: Words, Phrases and Short Stories, Mi granny always used to sehJamaican Proverbs, Funny But True: Croaking Lizards and Jamaicans. Nobody does, dont do that. That said, homophobia is not mean. What I DID LEARN was that slaves were shipped from island to island as trade between slave owners. I mean theyre very, very different places. As a little girl in primary school, our teacher taught us that Barbados was the jewel of the Caribbean. WebA few months ago, one of my Jamaican friends told me that he doesnt like Haitians. Thats blatantly hateful behavior and a completely separate topic from what were discussing here. We were taught that any Jamaicans are from the most aggressive tribes in west Africa, ( youruba, ashanti, fanti, etc. ) We just talk like thatpeople from other cultures are not used to dealing with any type of what they deem aggressive dialect so to them it sounds like we fighting , Kedesha Boothe (@KedeshaBoothe) March 8, 2020. but all the island peoples are family. People tend to be industrious, imaginative, and contrary to another unwelcome stereotype hard Most people who visit Jamaica describe us as friendly and helpful. Maybe some psychologists can explain it, but it resonates in a way that makes you feel good. Watching people dodging rain drops in Jamaica is like watching Neo in the movie the Matrix dodging bullets. In 2011, the figure was 40 per cent. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. The Chieftaincy System keeps it very much alive. Xavier: Well, thank you and blessings to you and your family and to all the Jamaicans there in Ghana. Ruth: Kakum Park. Ghanians Why Do U Pretend To Hate Nigerians, And Ethiopians Love Us? Xavier: Wow. In the good and bad sense. WebJamaican English, including Jamaican Standard English, is a variety of English native to Jamaica and is the official language of the country. Flee from projections. You have to wait for A, B and C to happen before you go and say that this person died. (Jamaicans Give Their Answers!). If you can't handle the truth don't ask a Jamaican because we tell you like it is. But its all very tasty, very peppery, very flavored with different smoked fishes. It was the African Americans. You need to wait a certain amount of time. So, Fufu is a mix of cassava, typically cassava and planting, green plantain, planting, mashed to a sticky kind of, pulp. Theres a tradition of what happens when I bring her back home, whose will the children be? Hypocrite. They arent necessarily bad thats to each owns interpretation but to me I see a lot of this materialism in Jamaicans. I think we are more blunt and direct so it maybe a been off putting. And I think youve covered it all. We want to hear from you! Is a stew that they call Contumre or Palaver Sauce, which is actually dasheen leaves, cooked down with a smokey fish, cooked with Palm oil and wi (we) eat it with green, boiled green plantain, like how Jamaicans eat boil green bananas? My anecdote, as you condescendingly put it (theres that jamaican charm again), comes from working with only Jamaicans for the last 2 and a half years. Gotta Love Us / Do Somalis,ethiopians And Eritreans Consider Themselves As Whites? Mi (I) nuh (no) can tell everybody say di (the) person died? No, actually you cant. But I would always get, You dont look Jamaican, because they assume that everybodys darker-skinned. So come connect with one of the Jamaicans here and have them sort of introduce Ghana to yuh (you). Who has the Best Patties in Jamaica? I don't think we're mean, but we're very direct for sure. Unfortunately, when honesty meets the innate expressiveness of patois, people (mis)interpret it for unkindness. / Nigerians Condemn Jamaicans Dancing And Rocking On A Bike (1) Why Do Jamaicans Love Ghanaians So Much by Nobody: 2:00am On Nov 18, 2021; dem no fit side you cause Nigeria girls are useless. Ruth: You just to absorb it. I had an Acadian mother and believe me, her French-Canadian behaviour was seen as very aggressive over in English Canada. Ghanaians-. Have you ever seen two Germans having an exciting conversation before? Xavier: Aright. Ill tell you another one that is big. Xavier: So heres the next question. they give all Black folks a bad reputation. Haha.I would say direct & passionate instead. Hello Kim! But the way we flavor it with salt fish is a way they flavor the majority of Ghanaian dishes are flavored with some form of smoked fish that is cut up just the same way wed cut up salt fish. Thinking about it the only reason that would be accurate is where we are tired of our culture being exploited otherwise we're laughing or stating facts. As for the hurt when criticized, this one had me laughing. Listen a lot and talk less. It comes from way back and it persists to this day. What I always tell people, we are NOT mean. Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Culture / Ghanians Why Do U Pretend To Hate Nigerians, And Ethiopians Love Us? One of the most interesting things Ive noticed is that foreigners who spend a lot of time around Jamaicans are genuinely confused by the question, Why are Jamaicans so mean? The thought never crossed their minds. It is an offense that can start an angry mob. This is an offense that can get your food establishment blacklisted as word spread that you are stingy with the gravy. Total myth. Peoples behavior represents centuries of behavior that was interrupted at some point, but it wasnt taken away. Is there anything missing from this list? However, your observation of how that pride plays out is shallow and inaccurate. I know some very nice jamaicans but if you date a jamaican man especially who grew up poor and had to be even harder. Theres a lot of reverence for the passing of time. THE TRUTH IS this is why you are disliked, hated even, by other islanders, your other side of the family. As I tell everybody, youre free to crack jokes with the people around you in both of these countries. Ive had to explain to a Scottish-Canadian that Im only joking with my abusive humour. Society and culture is inherently aggressive to another level Standard English, is a variety English! 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