If this is the case, that can be the reason why your husband/boyfriend needs to rehome the dog. He sees a dog and he looks SO happy. I realize that we cant always predict how animals are going to act but this seems like yet another person who just didnt take the time to properly train/socialize her dog. The dog has to constantly be in his lap, and he is always calling for it. When I told my wife about it she told me to call them back to tell them that the dog is staying here (at home with three young children). Theres no way I would want a dog in the bedroom at all let alone in the same bed, and theres no way I would expect any partner of mine to accept it if I had one. Basically, my girlfriend does not have the ability to create boundaries or is willing to instill some discipline with the dog. They are smaller dogs and use his house as a toilet. He has never had a pet in his life and I am at the point where I would like to add a cat to the equation. My girlfriend, not the dog. I have tried so hard to acclimate to her, but I feel deep resentment that is only getting worse. My baby is 8 months now with asthma and gets rashes and has eczemathe doctor said to keep the dog away from the baby because the dog is part of the problem but HE WILL NOT do that even of our lives depended on it. We are renovating a 1958 house with every penny we can during my weekends she actually does very little in this project, but its not about all that its about her boundless defence of these dogs that cost a fortune. He wouldnt stop suggesting it! So, a hardwood floor is a nice alternative for the carpeted floor, and it can provide remedies for the majority of his worries. Hire a trainer: If your husband/boyfriend firmly states get rid of the dog due to this peeing or pooping issue, I highly recommend you invest some money in a dog trainer and perform the training. Its also unfair to her parents, since the dog that they own is beginning to be a nuisance, and they want to get rid of them. Even his BF said she thought he might commit suicide when the dog died. Just read more comments. Did I mention that I have to carry him down the stairs & soon will need to carry up the stairs. Your husband is a cruel bully and should not own a dog. I would advise him to find someone who doesnt let an animals nasty behaviours to come in between your relationship. It was a very easy life to live with him and I loved him very much! I really do not understand this concept.. the answer of if you were a dog lover.. isnt the answer. The dog would nip at the husband whenever he tried to get near his wife to show her affection. LOL Oh, and I am laughing at the person being angry about your dogs I do feel for you being unable to have children. Unfortunately the society we live in, this fast-paced culture, this generation demands action, and fast results. for 4 years. Ive yet to see a site that discusses the possibility that dog fanatics people who worship their pets as baby humans, rather than those who enjoy their dogs as pets may have issues, and that those issues are health neither for pets, their owners, or their real-world relationships. The moment I say something about the behaviors, my wife instantly defends the dog and states that its my fault this dog is like this. I knew he was cuddling her and letting her lick his lips. Heres my issue. His dog is so naughty and bratty its driving me insane. We cant agree on where the dog can sleep, how much the dog can stay inside or even how much food to give the dog. He even refers to her as his child. Were simply not in the business of alienating friends and family over a dog. He did just that, and more. I have no bond with this dog maybe because I feel in tired of cleaning every inch of the house before and after work and it still smell stinky from the Min Pin using our house as the bathroom. There are odd threats, like turning the Guinea pigs loose in the bush or out in the snow {they would be dead} or letting the dogs play with them {again dead}, turning the hamster loose or giving him to the dogs, and shooting my dog. If youre starting a new relationship, take time to discuss your values regarding pets. He was taught to stay off the furniture and we did not feed him from our plate, so he never begged for food. Your dog is a huge shedder, and the husband or kids have allergies to dogs. so I was against them being out there while we eat, I needed peace! Hell cry for my SO when were trying to enjoy a movie together. As for your other issue, this is something that will require a serious heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. I do not want to toss out my engagement but I do not know how much more I can take. Im currently going through another argument with DH. I hate how this one barks when someone comes to the door. What about my feelings. Anyhow, my wife and my kids think I am a grumpy man because I am not happy living with the dog. If the brother can afford to take a year off he can afford a kennel or to fly the dog to Europe where there are plenty of dogs. Grew up in isolation with mostly only wild animals and pets. I agree with Charlie, you will never be first. Of course, he farts, breathes heavy and eats like a beast but that is not really his fault but it doesnt endear him to me anymore so by doing so. I should have seen the signs of this before moving in with him :-(. My wife and I have had this dog for about a month now. So, I really recommend doing so. What should i do? But take a moment and step back to look at the situation overall. An animal however lives by loyalty. I broke up with him because I saw no possible way for this to work, and I didnt want to force him to choose between me and the dog. I didnt get any attention except when he asked whats for dinner. I take care of him for the most part but he also takes him out when hes going out anyways. My husband had this dog prior to us getting married. When he got his pup thats where mostly all his focus went. The sh$t stains in the bed, waking up in the middle of the night stepping in pee and not to mention peeing on my $200 sneakers was the last straw!!! You deserve to be listened to, talked to, and even disagreed with. Climbing into a bed of pet fur stinking like a rank dog is disgusting! I cant fathom the fact that the dogs are more important than me! So, we gonna look into what you can do when your husband/boyfriend wants to get rid of or rehome your dog. In Mistys case it is pretty obvious that the man has a codependent relationship with his dog; he has made it clear to her that the animal is his priority and he is unwilling to change for the sake of developing a relationship with her. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. im just not sure i can make it till hes no longer in the picture. Hopefully it last in the long run because whining is one of my pet peeves and bothers me to the core. Well now she takes anything and everything and runs outside with it to destroy it. I love dogs too much to ever let go of them.. This has made someone lukewarm at best about pets someone who absolutely hates animals in the house. We cant leave Jake alone. I ended up ordering our food to go, but still. I can understand that, but Im having a hard time accepting it. I have a small senior dog who I live as if he were family. I work two jobs and run an at home crafts business, the boyfriend doesnt exercise her (or bathe her) so shes left in the house refusing to go outside and her energy builds, and I dont have enough energy to help her. Its possible that letting your pet wash mouth sores could spread them (cause immediate additional sores), but again, this is a virus under discussion. I have no problem allocating time for fetch and play but there is little opportunity to just decompress after work or talk one on one with my girlfriend. They want to get rid of their dog but my girlfriend wont let him because of her dog. He says he cant get rid of the dog bc it will upset his 22 year old adult son (who doesnt love with us & wont take care of the dog either)! I give her a command ( Ive spent hundreds of hours training) and she still resists and gets this look on her face like Ive done the worst thing in the world to her that also goes for asking her to go outside. Find another significant other that loves their dog, yet makes you feel special, respected, and loved as you should be treated. Animal shelters are more crowded than ever, and finding a person who loves his/her pet is a good thing. no speak was firmly stated and a ten minute time out started counting down once she was put by herself. Bathe the dog on regular basis. He used to send me cat videos, say how cute to them, stroke them when we met one on the streets and so on. Even in other peoples houses dog owners want to let their mutts do what they want. Wow. He eats my dogs food all the time. Why isnt she by the window sniffing the air like other dogs? I really felt the love from them there. As for me and the dog, we still dont get along, Im trying to make it work but she tends to nip and Yelp at me, so we just leave each other alone. She is putting her family first, but still valuing her pets. I feel like beau and I walk on eggshells every time hes around. Like gaming addiction its relatively new but growing fast (for a list of serious mental issues look to the fast-growth industries in terms of dollars). I want both of my boys happy and it breaks my heart to see them hate each other. I know how overwhelming it can be and the problem is, they think its normal and refuse to change. Quite amusing when everyone here is acting as though human loyalty and monogamy is just something coded deeply into our genes. Ive put tarp down in the room as he previously went poop on the floor there. Good luck. Its their HUMANS that I blame! Its been 6 weeks now, and I still sob. I just dont understand not loving a dog, any dog. On top of that you have sent the message that a dog, an animal, is more important than him, which is selfish and inconsiderate. And at this point I dont know what to do. They did not ask for a dog only compensate because they love you and you have one. Empty life dedicated to dogs. She says if I do so she will leave me. BF got mad when he first saw itwhat is that? REALLY. They didnt sleep in bed with us, were not allowed on the couch, and did not beg and whine for food. so I dog sat once for the weekend and I love dogs as well but not the same undisciplined way some humans are with their dogs. He will be terrible un-happy if he gets rid of them but as I said Im totally unhappy with them being at home. Thats what Im saying. Sounds like your partner is a narcissist, please join a narcissist support group on Facebook and check it for yourself. And when I dontobey him by responding to him(like in a text or in a face to face communication)when he thinks I should respond(like his dog; always loving)he compares it! With 2 dogs, that is just not happening. She doesnt know the meaning of no and in general sucks. She has a dog (little fur ball) that she has slept with literally cradled in her arms every night for the past 5 years. If that werent the case, I would never ask him to do anything that he would struggle with or resent, and nor would I allow anyone to expect me to change big aspects of my lifestyle either. We are going round in circles and Im stuck in a situation where I love my partner to bits but cant stand his dog and feel its not fair to get rid of her and keep the puggle which might end up in resentment from my partner. I am now sleeping on the couch. My boyfriend does not know what I am talking bout when I complain bout the smell (he must be used to it) but it irks me on a regular basis. I was scared. Please tell me if thats normal? I have beaten him and it still doesnt work! If you arent satisfied with your dogs behavior, and obviously, The husband/boyfriend isnt either, its a genius idea to try a doggy daycare intermittently for several days. Our lives are completely dominated by the wants/needs of these two hyper, needy dogs. Congratulations Misty! I asked her about it and she said she never wanted the dog in the first place, that she knew she would never be happy (I wish I would have known this) because I thought even though I knew she wasnt a fan of dogs that by getting one it would warm her heart, a cuddle play buddy. The dog doesnt know a leash nor rules. But its a hard one!! I tell my mother to stay married to this man means I will never have another pet, which I greatly dislike that thought, but I know my spouse will turn it into a human rather than respecting the species for what God has created. He is not a good guy; people who hurt dogs move on to hurting people. He constnstly wines for food and my mans attention! Two weeks ago the bomb dropped. I dont even like dogs and that would bother me. Even after a grooming she still emits a doggy aroma. How on earth was I supposed to know that someone was going to treat their dog like an infantile god-being? Wow, what a slap in the face. Sorry, but theres no way I would ever let a dog come between me and my wife, especially one that weighs all of 5 lbs on a good day. I was loving. Who would I talk to!?!!) Why are people sleeping with animals? I truly love our husky, but this new dog that my husband seems to love is driving me nuts. The shelter lied to us about her age, they said she was 4 ( which is still a trainable age,) well it turned out she is more like 6. I treat the cat better than him(see above). I thought it spoke volumes of their relationship. I have 2 kids 6 & 3 Im feeling like Mulan (the puppy) is another kid. I have always thought to myself that I could never get together with someone who had ever been cruel to animals, so I broke up and stayed on my own reflecting for a few days. In fact I finally had him get rid of a delapitaed recliner that was her chair trying to dehumanize her. I was irritated and so was he. Or, as suggested, get a king sized bed that can accommodate you both and the fur baby. A never-ending saga of stupid gross events. That causes me much sorrow. I love him and we have been together for almost three years and counting. Its also on linoleum so it doesnt leave a smell like it would in carpet. Its a fine thing for her to love her dog, but that doesnt make it okay for her to force its presence on you. 1. I also told him that he will be responsible for paying her vet bills, buying and bringing her dog food, etc. !! I watched him as he sat to the left of her, take her head. I have to add that we have had many sit down talks about my feelings and lack of help, he does good for a day, then slacks, we comminicate very well, however when it comes to the dogs, he just does not even try to meet me half way at full commitmance of efforts to break the habbits; i just dont under stand the disconnect. It literally drives me to resentment. Because he hates dog hair even though whenever My dog did come to my boyfriends with me he would have to stay outside. They seem to outnumber the sane/rational ones! Especially my husband, he is notorious for leaving clothes thrown on floor, leaving tools out over the place, NO NO NO no more PETS! Help please. He was the sweetest dog & loved everyone he came in contact with. I ended up caring for Pheobe for 8 years before she died. I didnt have much issue with his dog prior to moving in either, but then once he moved in with me, the dog became super needy and dependent and took up ALL my bfs attention. I am greatful that many people think like myself and know that animals are not people. Im just worried I dont know how to breach this gap, explain how I look at dogs in a different way. Whatever is our desire, we want it now and at the best price with the least effort. I love dogs but not wolves. .. A PET IS DEFINITELY LIKE A CHILD! I lied to my spouse that I was crying for another reason so another dog fight did not occur. He said he couldnt relax in his own home whilst we had a cat. They cry & come & stare at me. She also sniffs constantly. I had her so well trained. the dog sleeps indoors she has her own bed but will constantly climb on our bed at night. I super highly recommend going to training classes at a reputable place, such as the Humane Society (if there is one in your area). I dont have children and they have filled that void in my life brings forth the pivot in the issue of dogs/cats with respect to relationships between the animal and the pet owner. Really his anger and frustration did not match the act. So the dogs stay away from him whenever possible. It is unfortunate that so many people treat their dogs like humans instead of the animals they are. I dont know how you handled living for that long in the same house as that dog. All I want and preach to other people is compromise and Im still somewhere trying to find that. I dont know what to do,but am worried we might break up over a pet, which I dont want. Neither of us can fix it. This can be the reason why your husband/boyfriend needs to get rid of the dog. Once the kids move out and get their own lives if they want tons and tons of pets thats great I can go visit their pets. The 1st year she had just a few mishaps on the floor but it has grown out of control. In that same discussion, he said he would like to sleep with them 1 night a week. My dog DOES sleep on my bed. the puppy sleeps with us and the ex get jeleous when puppy puts his head on me. Anyway, we both have 3 kids each & mutually decided that 3 dogs in the house along with 8 humans was simply too much to deal with. He wont even consider me looking after a friends cat at our house for a week, thats how much he Dislikes pets. I felt betrayed but chose to comprise and said she can be on the couch, but only on his side. Before getting a dog cosnider the training and the money involved and if you cant your selfish. The dog doesn't deserve you anger, or to lose his home. The dog is the sweetest, smartest dog Ive ever had. The kids and him take advantage when it comes to housework, homework, cleaning, cooking, paying bills, organizing and they think Mom should do it all. She says that wild be cruel to them. Every suggestion I make about boundaries or training is shut down and she gets very offended. Use this site to investigate unknown phone numbers that raises red flags. In fact, there is nothing wrong with that if you meet all the needs and wants. They are not humans, theyre animals. Although, my pets never ranked higher in the family than my mother, father, sister, brother, or spouse. Im not a dog and wont be treated like that. Calls her a good girl and constantly gives her treats and loves on her. You can ask your friends ask their family and close ones whether they need to adopt your dog because giving the dog to someone you already know is better. Now with my partner its so different. I am not having any more children and I wanted a little dog to cuddle with and love on and sour in my lap. She was removed. What I wanna emphasize to you is that your family is a pack. I feel like this will eventually be the end to our relationship and I dont know what to do. The thing is, i told her hes ok at the foot of the bed, i dont mind him on the bed if hes there and i had been telling her for 3 months to start training him but she jokingly would refuse to do so. I was even letting the dog outside, feeding it etc. Let me remind you, he does not pee in the house and he does not go out any more than normal. There are so many dog nuts out there its scary!!! I left my marriage over the dog being his first thought, his first everything along with being stepped on with his snide comments and put downs. Hope you make a wise decision & whichever path you choose leads you to happiness. I read some of these comments and I must admit some of them are just unrealistic. if he refuses to even try & compromise in this kind of way then i say cut It shows empathy. After the second year of marriage I began to realize that my wifes focus was more on her dogs than on me. Not him. The other issue is she is so lazy with him. You are not crazy!!! Dont get the Bark Genie, the chihuahua barks right through it. I like dogs but I cant deal with this anymore. I cant stay in the kitchen (where they stay) because they bother me. They are always getting into the panty and eating us out of house and home, they poop and pee in the house still. Because he hates him please help. I am an animal lover of all kinds. I am not a dog person so I leave the animal care to her. They arent able to cook dinner when youve had a hard night. One of each. Chat with your husband/boyfriend: Talk with him very politely and say that you entirely agree and understandable his concern, and ask for another month to correct the behavior. We now have a 2 month old baby and as you could figure, I am extremely busy with him. But for now my house is a slight zoo. In fact, thats how we ended up getting together. If thats your kid, set boundaries. I like dogs in general but not drooly, nasty, ugly Bulldogs but that experience has really hurt my thought process of dating in regards to not giving someone a chance if they own a dog. He wants to get rid of the dog, but I know that this poor pup just needs some consistency, time, and a shot at unconditional love. My yorkie Rocky being one of them. There is always pee there when we come home from work and many times, he didnt even hit the pad, just big puddles on the floor around him. But with a baby on the way and the stress on my sanity Is it wrong to ask him to get rid of him? My SO has had this dog many years before me and my oldest came into the picture which I can understand but I can not understand this lack of control of this dog. I told her that I felt I was doing more with her dog than she was. His dog will jump up on the couch like me owns the place and will tey shove anyone off the couch. And jetaime, it only gets worse. Covered in fur and dirt and I think thats so low to allow that and let this shit undermine me that way. His parents are just as bad, they call the dog their grandkid and call several times a day to check on the dog. I think the marriage should be prioirity number 1 and that both parties should agree on this. Even though she knows to go outside shell go upstairs and pee or poop in the kids rooms or our bathroom. I complete understand your point! I wanted to develop a close, strong emotional bond with her but I believe her dogs were a distraction to her and hindered the growth of our relationship. Another year passed and my girlfriend and I decided to move in together. Im tired of the house smelling like dog no matter how many times a day we dettol it. Hardwood floor. Are you sure its just fur rather than lack of feeling important to youmore than an animal? I have always deeply loved animals and had pets as a kid. At the time I met my partner I had 6 rescue dogs. to get off of the couch to go get a treat he had for her hed say She doesnt have to, shes the queen! He hurt me deeply and there were times I absolutely hated the animal because she was the agent of my pain. on all of that! I have bad experience right now and its boiling on depression for me. I stated I would not and she leaves. And my boyfriend doesnt like spending time at my place so were always at his and my dog isnt aloud. If you are prioritizing the dog over your husband/boyfriend, you should get over yourself. However, because of your extreme allergies at the end of the day they are animals and you are a human and if you get to a point where you literally cant carry on living that way, I think you are well in your right to find a different home for these furry friends. My partners huskies shed like mad, and if he didnt brush them every day there would be a carpet of dog hair everywhere. No way. If you guys are having troubles over PETS, the relationship is never going to last, anyway. As humans we are supposed to have some capacity of having emotional responses to animals that are completely different to those that we have of people! They cannot make plans with you like a person can. Oh hell no. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. You get to go on dog park dates, have a third couch-cuddling companion, and a semi-legitimate excuse for . Im having the exact same issue with my dog and my partner hating him. Ultimately, it is extremely unfair to make a partner get rid of his/her pet. I met my husband when had his dog, a female chihuahua for a few years and I was okay with it and I actually bonded with the dog till I fell pregnant and then all of her annoying habits got to me. He gets very frustrated with them always being under us, the bullying of one to the other, the barking outside, the dog hair in the house even though I vacuum multiple times a week etc Any one have any help or advice to help work this issue out? She had the right to sit anywhere! We have already discussed 15 reasons why your husband/boyfriend may want to get rid of the dog with 15 possible solutions. Lets not forget the constant pictures of the dog taken with her phonesmh, I dont think its cool that she disregarded your feelings about dog on bed after you told her how you felt. Husband has been violent 2x in the 13 years and now again recently. Sounds like you hadnt spent enough time at his place over those 7 years to see all the hair that accumulated? It is one of the excellent ways to keep your dog mentally stimulated throughout the day, making a well-behaved dog. Since I wrote my post on here I broke up with my GF. Go on the couch, eat his food, go in our bedroom and climb on our bed. A dog should be a part of a family, and it is unfair for the dog to be unwanted. What does a woman want? Sometimes we do everything right. And all I ever hear is the mom talking to the cat or yelling the cats name and it drives me insane because the cat is so misbehaved and treated like a god. When we came back my mother in law, who has always disliked me, claimed that she could never do this favour again because she had become allergic to that particular cat, that he was annoying, loud, etc etc. I honestly believe its because people get dogs when they are single and lonely. I have problems with depression, chronic pain, etc. I live with my boyfriend, his chihuahua and my labradoodle and I cannot stand his dog! The dog just fed his ego. he directs his negativity at a 11 month old puppy. Cant you teach an old dog new tricks? Its better to keep him in a place where easily cleanable. She insisted that they loved her. This is real, hard, continuous effort and I believe that this is why some people give up on their human relationship and turn their efforts and affections towards animals. These are both 70lb monsters mind you! If I say something to him about how he is acting Im the enemy. 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